Mother. Coach. Athlete. Blogger. Volunteer. Adventurer. Brash. Honest. Real. Real Estate Developer. Exhausted. Ex Wife. Survivor of the Tri-Fecta of F*ckedupness.

Sports were my only out as a child. I can play just about any sport. I can coach many of them. But, I’m not a victim, nor a martyr.

Just trying to navigate the divorce waters and keep my sanity.

Writing this blog HELPS. Helps me. Helps others. Learning to love yourself after 45 years is a monumental task.

Own your story. I do. Don’t repeat the mistakes of those before you. Be a better person.

Please feel free to contact me at wanda.means@att.net.

Whatever you do, make a difference. Now, go do it.

Happy reading!